It’s really a good thing to be ambitious. I love ambitious people who take the initiative to make things better than they are. Imagine if the creation of ice cream flavor stopped with Vanilla. Vanilla is cool….we love it, but because someone was ambitious and took initiative, we now get 31 plus flavors.
Now,..Let’s talk about the bedroom because that is where I seem to be most ambitious! Ladies I know you do a spectacular job pleasing your man (orally), but for those of you whose men are blessed in the middle, gag reflex can disturb the flow of really good mouth rhythm. The gag reflex is another protection of the human body to prevent you from choking. Specifically the reflex is a contraction of the back of the throat induced by touching the soft palate. The contraction prevents something from entering the throat unless it is part of normal swallowing. In layman terms; when Big Daddy hits the back of your throat with his penis, your gag reflex kicks in to keep Big Daddy from choking you. The problem is that this IS the one time you want to…..well….go deep but without the gagging.
I have never been one to introduce a problem without suggesting a solution, so I have a couple of wonderful tips that will make going deep a full pleasure experience for you and your man.
1. The Experiment -The reason your gag reflex kicks in so quick is because the back of the throat is a sensitive area. Large items which obstruct your airway are not meant to peruse back there so the reflex kicks in almost before Big Daddy hits the back of your throat. I want to give you an experiment that will de-sensitize your reflex allowing you to go deep. For two weeks, when you brush your teeth in the morning, brush the back of your tongue just past your tonsils. You will feel the urge to gag immediately but brushing lightly in this area daily makes the back throat area less sensitive. Your gag reflex relaxes because it is getting used to something hitting the back throat. The first three days will be rough, but you will begin to notice a difference by day 4 or 5.
2. Chloraseptic- yeah you know that little spray that we use to numb our sore throats when we are sick? It’s not just for sore throats anymore. The active ingredient that causes your throat to go numb also numbs your gag reflex. If you spray your throat a few minutes before sex, you can go deep for a long time with zero reflex of any kind. Now when you walk the medicine isle, you will never look at Chloraseptic the same.
Some of you are probably all offended and appalled that I’m speaking on how to make Big Daddy smile a little wider, but that just means you have a Little Daddy who ain’t taking care of business at home and likely not making you feel elevated to the highest high. This one ain’t for you anyway.
This one is for my Ladies married or in a Relationship with a man who makes her feel like the sun sets and rises at her command. This is for the Ladies whose mere thought of her man causes her Nani to throb and get moist. In addition to putting it down in the bedroom he got Home taken care of too. For all that, the least you can do for Big Daddy is Go Deep!
I want feedback from you and maybe your own personal techniques you subscribe to….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !
Godspeed
~Latoya~
