It’s really a good thing to be ambitious. I love ambitious people who take the initiative to make things better than they are. Imagine if the creation of ice cream flavor stopped with Vanilla. Vanilla is cool….we love it, but because someone was ambitious and took initiative, we now get 31 plus flavors.
Now,..Let’s talk about the bedroom because that is where I seem to be most ambitious! Ladies I know you do a spectacular job pleasing your man (orally), but for those of you whose men are blessed in the middle, gag reflex can disturb the flow of really good mouth rhythm. The gag reflex is another protection of the human body to prevent you from choking. Specifically the reflex is a contraction of the back of the throat induced by touching the soft palate. The contraction prevents something from entering the throat unless it is part of normal swallowing. In layman terms; when Big Daddy hits the back of your throat with his penis, your gag reflex kicks in to keep Big Daddy from choking you. The problem is that this IS the one time you want to…..well….go deep but without the gagging.
I have never been one to introduce a problem without suggesting a solution, so I have a couple of wonderful tips that will make going deep a full pleasure experience for you and your man.
1. The Experiment -The reason your gag reflex kicks in so quick is because the back of the throat is a sensitive area. Large items which obstruct your airway are not meant to peruse back there so the reflex kicks in almost before Big Daddy hits the back of your throat. I want to give you an experiment that will de-sensitize your reflex allowing you to go deep. For two weeks, when you brush your teeth in the morning, brush the back of your tongue just past your tonsils. You will feel the urge to gag immediately but brushing lightly in this area daily makes the back throat area less sensitive. Your gag reflex relaxes because it is getting used to something hitting the back throat. The first three days will be rough, but you will begin to notice a difference by day 4 or 5.
2. Chloraseptic- yeah you know that little spray that we use to numb our sore throats when we are sick? It’s not just for sore throats anymore. The active ingredient that causes your throat to go numb also numbs your gag reflex. If you spray your throat a few minutes before sex, you can go deep for a long time with zero reflex of any kind. Now when you walk the medicine isle, you will never look at Chloraseptic the same.
Some of you are probably all offended and appalled that I’m speaking on how to make Big Daddy smile a little wider, but that just means you have a Little Daddy who ain’t taking care of business at home and likely not making you feel elevated to the highest high. This one ain’t for you anyway.
This one is for my Ladies married or in a Relationship with a man who makes her feel like the sun sets and rises at her command. This is for the Ladies whose mere thought of her man causes her Nani to throb and get moist. In addition to putting it down in the bedroom he got Home taken care of too. For all that, the least you can do for Big Daddy is Go Deep!
I want feedback from you and maybe your own personal techniques you subscribe to….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !
Godspeed
~Latoya~
Interesting comentery I never thought about the cloraseptic. I was so stupid when I was young I tried to shove popcycles down a girl throat ” Her girl practice with this” But what can A man teach a Woman about something he nose nothing about. Thats great 25 years to late lol but great…. Makes me Kick my self for being scared to talk to you back in school. lol
im not in a relationship now, but when i am i know how to go deep, i do have casual sex, but not the oral, until we have titles, but i used to practice with a banana, so i know how to deep throat it, hey i like this blog, yeah grown folks
OKAY, NOW THIS ONE IS CRAZY, I KNOW WE TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING, BUT THERE ARE SOME THINGS I JUST DON’T WANT TO KNOW ABOUT YOU. ANYWAYS VERY INTERESTING, NOW WHAT….LOL, I DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY , I BELIEVE FOR THE FIRST TIME I’M SPEECHLESS, BUT FOR THE MEN, I DO HAVE A QUESTION, DOES IT FEEL BETTER WHEN A WOMAN GOES DEEP, OR IS IT THE SAME, I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IN DETAILS WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE AND HOW IT FEELS.
MS. NAY
This is really neat! I thought I had everything down until my husband pushed my head down and I had the urge to gag, I did, and my dinner came up. I’ve been practicing on him while he sleeps. But, I will definitely try the toothbrush.
Got any advice for anal sex? I always thought, that part was stickly an exit and not an entry. What are your thoughts?
Anal can be a wonderful experience if that is something you are truly ready for. Your partner can make or break the experience. If the presentation is correct, you will ask for it again. Relax Relax Relax is the most important.
I am going to email you the rest of the information because I am actually doing a topic on this and I don’t want to write it this very moment. Check your email because I am going to give you some one on one gyrlfriend time.
~Latoya~
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Well this is a wondeful topic which I will proudly say I have perfected with my man. But he says he likes when I gag once in a while it turns him on…wierd. But my biggest thing is to remind him that i am doing the sucking & i don’t need him to hold my head. I control the situation and he has to submit by just telling me verbally what he likes or want me to do. I think its sexual communication and it relaxes me and my throat. So now I don’t gag just take my time and find my rhythm & what works for us as a couple. So now I can go deep..lol!
Hey Ms Jade
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I think he likes you to gag because he wants to know his tool is too much for you to handle. so…yeah, gagging can be complimentary sometimes
~Latoya~
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AYO
Great advise!!
You have a really cool site! I LOVE it! I hope you excel in it.
Now I am going to be addicted!
Thank you Shay…Compliments like that are always wecome, appreciated and definitely encouraging for me. Please tell a friend and let them know their Ultimate Gyrlfriend is waiting for them right here
I feel you girl and yeah I think I’ll try the throat spray. That’s seem interesting.
Thanks! This was really helpful:) I’ll try it out and hope he’s pleased. I haven’t seen him in a long time and it’ll still be a while, so I’ll practice and give him an unexpected treat next time I see him ;] thanks for the advice:))
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