Archive for December, 2008

Is It Time To Re-new Your Passion?

Monday, December 29th, 2008

toyagrn.JPGHaving passion for pleasing your Love automatically elevates a sexual experience from regular to extraordinary. To be passionate about pleasing your partner means its not just a goal, it’s a personal mission!

As years progress and we add mileage to our relationships, the passion we once had when making love tends to slowly fade. Mind blowing marathon sessions have withered to a race to the finish. For a woman, nothing is worse than having sex with her husband and feeling as if she were never part of the act. I can only imagine for a man, nothing is worse than feeling as if your having sex with a stranger who has no attraction for you. But that is what it comes down to when all passion has gone. Sex becomes a regular mechanism rather than an extraordinary experience.

Renewing passion for one another starts with remembering. Remembering those emotions running rampant in your body when you anticipated sex. It wasn’t enough to screw until you cum. You had to know every part of her; how she taste, her scent, the way her skin felt against yours. There was passion for how you wanted to make her feel and when you made love to her all that emotion transferred from your spirit to hers and she felt the depth of you.

Ladies renew your passion for your man by remembering how you felt when you wanted to do anything and everything for him. You could care less what people thought of you because all that mattered is that Big Daddy had all his desires fulfilled. He didn’t even have to ask you to give the “other Daddy” attention. You anticipated it all day and couldn’t wait to get home and drop to your knees. Passion is so powerful, that everything which sprouts from it is extraordinary and effortless. This one is simple. All you have to do is remember then re-new.

I’m asking the question; Is it time to re-new your passion?………I’m listening……Holla at ya Gyrl!

Godspeed
~Latoya~

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Ready To Play?

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

t.bmpCan sex be extraordinary without foreplay? Foreplay is the most powerful prelude to intercourse and an art to appreciate. What other act is capable of bringing the heat without any physical contact what so ever? It’s not only about caressing nipples and teasing the clitoris or the head of the penis…that’s great, but not extraordinary. Extraordinary is having the ability to immerse your partner’s mind, set the scene, and excite the body before you even touch it. Yes I said it! BEFORE you even touch it.

When an Artist is ready to paint his masterpiece, he doesn’t just throw colors about. Total focus and commitment is placed on his vision before the brush meets the canvas. Some of us are not even privy to “regular” foreplay. For you, foreplay may have began as unbelievable excitement then over the years digressed to the mechanical “bump, bump” in the middle of night; you lifting your leg, and him entering. You wake up trying to remember if you had sex at all!

It is said the mind is the human body’s best erogenous zone. So why not arouse it with your foreplay and a good mind phuc? Our world today is all about communication. We have emails, texting, cell phones; instant messaging…the range is broad so use it.

Imagine reading an explicit message from your Woman explaining in detail how she is going to handle Big Daddy’s ….umm….Missile. Would you agree she has just captivated your mind and initiated extraordinary foreplay? Now, what if she showed up on your lunch break to make it happen? Would you be ready to play?….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl!

Godspeed
~Latoya~

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Are You Ready To Shake The Routine?

Wednesday, December 10th, 2008

t.bmpEstablishing a routine is necessary when going about your day to day life but having routine and predictable sex is quite boring. Some of us are on “routine sex” cruise control and don’t even realize it. Elevating “regular” sex to an extraordinary level takes small effort and reasonable creativity. A few adjustments to your routine is enough to move back into the category of exciting. Let’s explore some ways to break the monotony.

 How about getting out of the bedroom?! Remember the saying “location, location, location.” This holds true with sex as well. There is nothing routine about experiencing sex on demand. So next time you want it, don’t wait until you get home to the “married” bed, figure out a way to have it…on demand.

 Turn up the heat by giving her a full palm smack on the a$$ while stroking her from the back. The smack has to be firm enough to feel the wave of heat, but soft enough that she will welcome another.

 Ladies, last thing your husband will expect to see after a long day at work and years of marriage is you waiting for him wearing sexy lingerie or your birthday suit paired with the highest heels you can manage. You are much more than the mother of his children so stop acting like that’s your only role!…oh and make sure you give him a proper greeting too. :)

Hey Routine Happens to all of us, even me! The challenge is recognizing when its time for a change then making it happen. Are you ready to shake the routine? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl!

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Is Proper Zoning Essential?

Monday, December 1st, 2008

toya-cut2.bmpIs proper Zoning essential? Yes it is!!! How can we delve into extraordinary sex without giving respect to Erogenous Zones?

Erogenous Zones are areas of the body, when stimulated, create sexual arousal. Since Women have more zones than Men, my primary topic will focus on us girls. If I were to randomly ask people to name a few erogenous zones on a woman’s body, I’m sure the top 2 answers would be the clitoris and breast. If the goal is to get the fire burning and fast, you could never ever go wrong with those two areas of the body. But..In this sex series we’re going for extraordinary, right? Since we already know how to get the fire burning and fast, let’s talk about a slow simmer.
We love to be “worked” on, so take your time and go all out with the music, candles, oil etc. When she opens the door and sees what you have done for her and are getting ready to do to her, you’ve just ignited the most important erogenous zone in a woman’s body;
1. Her Mind – We fantasize and romanticize every damn thing! We want for ourselves that “movie” love scene that makes us gasp in the theaters. With very little effort: a couple of candles, dim light, and a love CD you already had in the CD collection you’ve already stimulated a zone.
2. Nape of the neck – This is my favorite zone because you don’t have to be naked or in a secluded private area to stimulate it which adds to the stimulation. It’s sexy to surreptitiously stimulate her in a public area and you two are the only people who know what’s going on.
3. The Butt – Light kisses with a little tongue or feather strokes on the contour of her butt sends small electric sensations to her vagina.
4. Inner Thighs – we have lots of nerve endings in this area. A sensual tease would be to kiss this area as if you are approaching the Nani, but don’t. This will cause her to throb and beg for you to make her orgasm.
5. Kissing – How can I talk about erogenous zones without giving special tribute to the one that wakes all of them up! For us girls it was a Kiss, in our adolescence, which made us realize something else was happening to our bodies. It was a kiss that made our minds rationalize it was okay for his hands to touch the forbidden spots. The right kiss can definitely be the prelude to a euphoric experience.

If your woman is not “vocal” or it’s difficult to measure her level of arousal, listen to her breathing pattern. I don’t care how dead she is with noise; her breathing will always give way to how aroused she is.
Those are my top 5, what about yours? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !

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