Is proper Zoning essential? Yes it is!!! How can we delve into extraordinary sex without giving respect to Erogenous Zones?
Erogenous Zones are areas of the body, when stimulated, create sexual arousal. Since Women have more zones than Men, my primary topic will focus on us girls. If I were to randomly ask people to name a few erogenous zones on a woman’s body, I’m sure the top 2 answers would be the clitoris and breast. If the goal is to get the fire burning and fast, you could never ever go wrong with those two areas of the body. But..In this sex series we’re going for extraordinary, right? Since we already know how to get the fire burning and fast, let’s talk about a slow simmer.
We love to be “worked” on, so take your time and go all out with the music, candles, oil etc. When she opens the door and sees what you have done for her and are getting ready to do to her, you’ve just ignited the most important erogenous zone in a woman’s body;
1. Her Mind – We fantasize and romanticize every damn thing! We want for ourselves that “movie” love scene that makes us gasp in the theaters. With very little effort: a couple of candles, dim light, and a love CD you already had in the CD collection you’ve already stimulated a zone.
2. Nape of the neck – This is my favorite zone because you don’t have to be naked or in a secluded private area to stimulate it which adds to the stimulation. It’s sexy to surreptitiously stimulate her in a public area and you two are the only people who know what’s going on.
3. The Butt – Light kisses with a little tongue or feather strokes on the contour of her butt sends small electric sensations to her vagina.
4. Inner Thighs – we have lots of nerve endings in this area. A sensual tease would be to kiss this area as if you are approaching the Nani, but don’t. This will cause her to throb and beg for you to make her orgasm.
5. Kissing – How can I talk about erogenous zones without giving special tribute to the one that wakes all of them up! For us girls it was a Kiss, in our adolescence, which made us realize something else was happening to our bodies. It was a kiss that made our minds rationalize it was okay for his hands to touch the forbidden spots. The right kiss can definitely be the prelude to a euphoric experience.
If your woman is not “vocal” or it’s difficult to measure her level of arousal, listen to her breathing pattern. I don’t care how dead she is with noise; her breathing will always give way to how aroused she is.
Those are my top 5, what about yours? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !
good info and spending time orally with a woman’s nipples are always a zone I like to frequent!
that’s a good list! i’d say the top five areas I like to hit are:
1) neckline – can’t go wrong with it and don’t be afraid to include the ears.
2) legs – im talking about the whole leg. from the back of the thighs to the inside. lightly down the calves and shins to a light caress on the trunk of the foot, following up with a quick little foot rub to get her body tingling and relaxed.
3) back – if you stroke up the back to make her gasp and arch, add a lil pressure and massage those muscles and that gasp will turn into a deep moan. i like to multi-task.
4) breasts – not just the nipple, the whole thing. the top, the bottom, ESPECIALLY the sides. it’s all gravy.
5) hair – a little light pulling, and scalp scratch/massage. if you havent tried it, do her a favor and add it to the mix.
foreplay shouldn’t be a snack, it should be part of the main course!
Your descriptions of the zones alone are causing me to heat up!…muti-tasking is good. I’m taking my own notes here.
~Latoya~
well they say if you’re going to do something, put some pride into your work and do it right!
the funny thing about this one is i dont have a zoning spot…i think that i may be the only female not to have one….
I get off on my man getting off…weird right?
Yolanda I think you do have at least one or two “Zones”. Your Zones are anything that gets you hot and wet before He enters you. That can be his kisses, caresses etc. There is nothing weird about enjoying the fact YOU enjoy making your Man cum. I’m sure he is smiling all the time because of you
I secretly dig that as well yolanda! I wish I could figure a way to get him to do it more, I also get the opportunity to see exactly how he likes it and where his zones are!
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