Establishing a routine is necessary when going about your day to day life but having routine and predictable sex is quite boring. Some of us are on “routine sex” cruise control and don’t even realize it. Elevating “regular” sex to an extraordinary level takes small effort and reasonable creativity. A few adjustments to your routine is enough to move back into the category of exciting. Let’s explore some ways to break the monotony.
How about getting out of the bedroom?! Remember the saying “location, location, location.” This holds true with sex as well. There is nothing routine about experiencing sex on demand. So next time you want it, don’t wait until you get home to the “married” bed, figure out a way to have it…on demand.
Turn up the heat by giving her a full palm smack on the a$$ while stroking her from the back. The smack has to be firm enough to feel the wave of heat, but soft enough that she will welcome another.
Ladies, last thing your husband will expect to see after a long day at work and years of marriage is you waiting for him wearing sexy lingerie or your birthday suit paired with the highest heels you can manage. You are much more than the mother of his children so stop acting like that’s your only role!…oh and make sure you give him a proper greeting too. 
Hey Routine Happens to all of us, even me! The challenge is recognizing when its time for a change then making it happen. Are you ready to shake the routine? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl!
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I myself have always been one for romance, but I too admit that it’s hard to get out of the regular scheduled sex. In my conversation with people I have found that in a long relationship you have one person who is dictating the schedule and the other who is happy to even be on the schedule.
I personally wish there were no schedule, I feel you Toya when you say “Get out of the bedroom”. I tired of “Catch me in the morning”, “I’m tired”, and back in the day you she would give it up any where any way.
Do you have any thoughts on how when you recognize there’s a schedule and you make the push for the change and your partner doesn’t respond?
Holla @ me
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