Valentine’s Day is in 3 days! Ladies by now you should already have your Nani cosmetically and hygienically correct, your “smell good” lotion on deck and a sexy ass outfit complimenting the assets. Forget about being a Mama/Wife, bring out his Girlfriend and surprise him with something unexpected.
I hope you Daddies didn’t wait until now to plan your day. You know how you are and if you want your love day to begin and end with some loving you’d better appear to have had V-Day planned well in advance.
For guys, V-day is a no-brainer; it’s practically text book: 1. show up with flowers and/or chocolate, 2. go out to dinner, 3. tell your woman how fine she is. You do those things and you are guaranteed a night of good sex, I promise..Even if you’re single. See women will not spend V-day with someone they don’t want to have sex with. The moment she agreed to spend Valentine’s Day with you, the decision was made that very moment. You are chosen and it’s going down. The only way that changes is if YOU (Big Daddy) mess it up.
Fellas, may I recommend that you leave the dress up and costumes to the Ladies? Unless you are a Male Exotic Dancer for real, leave the g-string and stripper dancing to us. PLEASE don’t buy bikini underwear with 3d characters in the front. Better yet, don’t buy bikini underwear at all, or those corny heart boxer shorts. We (women) look sexy in fantasy wear; you (men) just look emasculated. Trust me, you have the prize and when it’s stiff that’s the best outfit ever.
Now that I have established and reaffirmed the Valentine’s Day rituals and faux pas, I’m asking the question; has cupid’s arrow hit the center of your heart? What are your plans for Valentines Day? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !
Godspeed
Latoya
I need to know whats so special about Valentine’s Day!!
Ugh!! I hate to admit this Big, but i’m not a big V-day person either. I get a lot of “stuff” for absoultely no reason at all so I don’t care about Valentines Day. I don’t even like chocolate. Furthermore why should great sex be reserved for a day in February?!
We are eye to eye on this one ,but I wrote the topic so your Male friends won’t be doing or wearing dumb stuff because they feelin’ sexy!
Latoya
Glad u agree, But why do so many sista’s feel that they should receive some type of gift on this day and if they don’t they feel as though their not being loved. (WHATEVA)
Valentine’s Day is a holiday for celebrating love (or at least pursuit thereof). If you do your do on the regular, then you can appreciate even more this “day”. It’s just a time to have fun with your partner. Personally, I’m without. For now, all I have is hope. There are fellas who are cynical and worried about costs. I could appreciate a man who is imaginative despite having minimal ends. It comes down to ROMANCE. If a man is broke, I can’t expect him to pay for a weekend getaway to Vegas. However, if he utilizes well his resources, has genuine appeal, is fun and unselfish, I could consider that.
I think if a sista’ is equating Love with what she receives on Valentine’s Day has bigger issues and it has nothing to do with if she “gets” something on V-day.
I don’t want to spoil the day for people who live for Valentine’s
Day, I just think its more memorable for a man to do something special for his women when she is least expecting it.
Thank you Brie for being a Sista with a realistic view of Valentine’s Day.
Latoya
Sorry Ms Brie, but I’ll have to agree with BD & WORDS on this one. If the “Love and Romance” is being circulated throughout the year, this one “Day” should not be any more special than the others.
Flowers, dinners, movies, sexy outfits, etc. if they are done anyway. Then Every evolution is V-Day. Why save all the “Special Energy” for a set 24hr period. Besides…the goal is always the same at the beginning and end of the day….THE BED!!
WOW, NOW WHAT IS VALENTINES? PEOPLE MAKE SUCH A BIG DEAL ABOUT IT, BUT DO ANYONE KNOW THE HISTORY? I HOPE YOU ARE NOT WAITING ON ME TO TELL YOU, BECAUSE I HAVE NO CLUE, BUT I THINK IT MEANS DIFFERENT THINGS FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE. FOR INSTANCE MARRIED COUPLES WITH CHILDREN, IT ACTUALLY GIVE THEM A DAY THAT REMINDS THEM OF JUST THE TWO OF THEM WITH NO GUILT, BECAUSE AS WIVES AND DADDIES, WE PUT SO MUCH TIME AND EFFORT INTO OUR CHILDREN, WE SOMETIMES HAVE TO REMEMBER TO SIT BACK, BREATHE, AND JUST REMINSCE AND GET NASTY(WELL IN MY CASE, IM NOT LOOKING FOR THE ROMANCE, CANDY , FLOWERS, OR GIFTS, GIVE ME THE GIFT OF RELEASE) NOW FOR MY SISTAS WITH BOYFRIENDS, IT IS JUST SOMETHING TO BRAG ABOUT TO YOUR GIRLFRIENDS WHO DONT HAVE A MAN, YOU DON’T EVEN CARE IF THAT MAN STICK AROUND JUST AS LONG AS HE SENDS YOUR FLOWERS TO YOUR JOB IN FRONT OF ALL THE HATING BROADS. NOW TO MY SINGLE , SINGLE SISTAS, THIS IS JUST ANOTHER REMINDER THAT YOU DON’T HAVE A MAN, YOU WISH VALENTINES NEVER HAPPENED….MY SISTAS DO I SYMPATHIZE……HELL NAW I GOT A MAN, SORRY, FIND YOU ONE BEFORE NEXT YEAR COME…LOL, WHEW, LOW BLOW, BUT I REMEMBER WHEN I WAS THAT GIRL…..I JUST HAD TO KEEP KEEPING IT REAL
MS. NAY