Comments on: Isn’t it time to back up those Cackling Hens?

By: Terrence Campbell

Terrence Campbell — Thu, 01 Apr 2010 15:15:17 +0000

Be careful you know who’s your real girlfriend and what you tell them. All the flaws you communicate in your man may be just what your girl is looking for. Don’t act like I’m not telling the truth. There are some shady friends out there. She bad mouths her man all the time yet her girlfriend is like “she just don’t know what she has” Instead of complaining and nagging all the damn time, how about you think about what got you in the relationship in the first place. Was it the way he smiled at you? Maybe the because he truly wants to take care of you? Quit trying to speed up his learning curve to how you want your perfect man to be. He will get there. But if you keep it up, he might get there with her instead.

By: nicholas carpenter

nicholas carpenter — Thu, 01 Apr 2010 15:13:01 +0000

When u invite 3rd parties into your relationships,u are sure to damage it beyond repair! U are the trusted circle of friends when it comes to a relatonship meaning nobody elses opinion idea or otherwise should be determining how u treat your situation! Ill be damned if I take advice from people who can’t even manage to pay light bills yet alone predict what my future for me! Thanks but no thanks!

By: koko marshall

koko marshall — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 22:43:26 +0000

Girl yeah! back they asses up before you be out there lookin for another man. I know been there, yeah popin up at ur house when u aint there, an all that type of stuff. The majority of the time they hatin, want u just like them, lonely. Oooh! an dont have a good man, that they cant find anything bad to say about him huh! U better stop look an listen to Toya!!!!!

By: Clarence lester

Clarence lester — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 21:16:52 +0000

half the time the friends that they are consulting with are single! So my question is, how can you take advice from someone who isn’t even qualified to speak on relationship issues?

Its like asking your dentist for financial tips.. and your banker about oral hygiene.

By: workingitoutformyself

workingitoutformyself — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:43:43 +0000

I think you are right about telling your friends to much. It opens a door for way to much confusion in the relationship and to much spectating from the sidelines.

By: janel watt

janel watt — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:00:02 +0000

You went to church on this one! Wow!

By: wordsRmylife

wordsRmylife — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 14:59:57 +0000

true2me you hit all the fine points of what can happen when balance is sought with our gyrlfriends. But like Urban Punk said some women see your happiness and it reflects the opposite of their own lives. The great thing is that only a few have those issue, not all of US!

See sometimes its our fault because we tell our gyrls too much. We want them to be mad at Big Daddy with us then calm down when we forgive him. It doesn’t work because your gyrlfriends are vested in YOU! So we have to be the conductor of keeping both sides in Harmony

Latoya
(wordsRmylife)

By: true2me

true2me — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:40:25 +0000

I agree with the support but sometimes if you do tell them too much, the end up hating your boyfriend or wanting to be with him lol

Then when you reconcile after breaking up with him, they give you the constant side eye and roll their eyes everytime you bring him up

if he’s super good…they get tired of you “bragging”

so yeah..if you can try and keep relationship stuff between the two of you

if you break up..then you can diss him all you want

By: That Urban Punk (Nikia)

That Urban Punk (Nikia) — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 17:06:56 +0000

Oh those wonderful girlfriends (a.k.a cockblockers) I think that sometimes they try to poison the water in relationships because their personal lives are not up to par and they just can’t get past it. I also think sisters can be lumped into this issue occassionally, although its a little harder to recognize because family is different for the most part. We need more women like you to impart wisdom regarding this matter to other women out there. To be fair the same rules can be levied against us men, whereas we aren’t swayed in the same fashion by our boys, bad association can spoil useful habits, so says the word. And it is so very useful to be on the good foot with your women.

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