Posts Tagged ‘bedroom’

Can you take all 5?

Friday, February 26th, 2010

toya09I’m absolutely awestruck with how amazing our bodies are. Because we are born in our skin it’s so easy to take this beautiful, intelligent, creation for granted. Our sense of taste allows us to differentiate between a strawberry and a cherry; a steak and a hot dog; sweet potato pie and peach cobbler. Sight gives us the visual acuity to see life in High Definition with all its depth of color. Smell allows the experience of pleasant aromas. Sound gives us the enjoyment of melody; and Touch…yeah, we all know what happens when we’re touched the right way, in the right places. Since these five senses are not for practicality alone, let’s explore the pleasure of all five.

Sense of touch and sight are utilized most in the bedroom. Whether its direct or through your mind’s eye the body is responsive to what you see then you want to touch what has awakened that sense. As the sensation of sight and touch overtake us; we rush to give in to our animal instinct. For most, intercourse begins here with the rest of the senses being benched again! However this would be the perfect time to stop and slooowwww down. While your lips travel through curves and valleys, inhale slowly and allow your most primitive sense to awaken; smell.

The pheromones being released by your partner draw you into a higher state of arousal. These Human chemicals are commanding enough to override any inhibitions you may have, therefore use this to stimulate the ears. Have you ever had or gave a good ear-gasm? The reality of people paying to hear sex-talk illustrates how powerful voice is. To some there is nothing greater than hearing, their partner tell them (in a very very very explicit manner) what is going to be done to their body. Speak your desires and intentions into the ear and see how quickly the body prepares for the last sense of stimulus; Taste.

Ready to experience all 5?…I’m listeniing…Holla at ya Gyrl!

Have You Made the Proper Introduction?

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

toyagrn.JPGYears ago a friend of mine hosted a Naughty Girl party. Never having been to one, I had only heard it was like an Avon or Princess House gathering but with Adult products. Staring at my invitation even more curious than before, I checked Will Attend and placed the response card in the mail.

While the Consultant gave her spiel on why we Ladies shouldn’t be embarrassed about purchasing love toys, I eyed the table with fascination. Jack Rabbits, High intensity, Low or No Intensity, neon colors, butterflies, circulating motion etc..The varieties of dildos were impressive; seriously, back then I had no idea there were so many different types, yet I wasn’t as excited as everyone else about buying one. The idea of a quickie with some “thing” I was supposed to give a Pet name was not appealing to me. My plan was to chat a few minutes, browse (as a courtesy) and bounce. As I browsed my way to the door, I saw it. Yes…I saw something I could not take my eyes off. Sitting on a corner table by itself was a black leather whip with soft suede tassels. I felt bonded the moment I wrapped my little fingers around the handle. I left a check for $25.00 and walked out the house, whip in hand.

I later changed my attitude about dildos after discovering they are not solely for the solo act. I found that my whip along with toys (purchased later) were/are very useful in the bedroom and add extra fun to foreplay. Not only does it allow for multiple orgasms, but the use of toys are a great way for Big Daddy to put a slow burn on the Zones; keeping all those electrical impulses in your body, well…pulsating. If you haven’t introduced Big Daddy to “artificial daddy” there are a few rules you must FIRST know;

1. The size of your toy should not in any way, shape or length be bigger than Big Daddy
2. When you erupt during foreplay, all praises must go to Big Daddy
3. Aside from the occasional “emergency” never give it up to the toy more than you give it to Big Daddy
4. Please don’t name your toy. Big Daddy is the Alpha Male, period!

Oh, and the Whip??? Yeah I discovered a new side of me which I will elaborate on in my next topic. Today I’m asking the question;

Ladies: Are you selfish or bestowing with your toys?
Big Daddies: Have you been properly introduced? I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !