Posts Tagged ‘couples’

Ladies, Do You Respect and Appreciate Your Prize?

Sunday, February 1st, 2009

toyagrn.JPGIt never fails! Whenever I’m in the company of women who are long time Relation-shippers, the conversation always re-directs to weight or sex. Not sex the way I spin it, more like Government sex. Government sex is sex that is issued out like a welfare check; once per month. While your time and energy is placed on making your hair-do last till your next appointment, shopping for clothes or stuff you don’t need and catching up with your girlfriends; a man who loves YOU and worships the ground YOU walk on patiently waits for his Government issue.

We take on the attitude and belief our Nani is priceless. It is when we are deciding who we want to share it with, but once you choose and commit, the Nani comes off the shelf. To hold back is to have given it away under false pretense! If my memory serves me right, the Nani is at her best with its counterpart: the penis. I’ve played with toys before but nothing and I mean ab-so-lute-ly nothing takes the place of a man’s body on top of you guiding and directing his own penis until you strain your vocal chords. My point?….There is just as much power in the penis as is the Nani so show some respect and appreciation. You can start by;

– Waking up with him before he goes to work and giving him full access. His penis is already wide awake so it’s an effortless gesture.
-Thank him for knowing how to use his penis to make your body tremble and shake uncontrollably.
-Right when his is leaving for work, give him two kisses. One on the lips and one on his…you know what’s up.

Be grateful he can rise up just by watching you move around the house. That’s a compliment to your sexy. Reward him but realize you are the one getting the prize.

Ladies do you respect and appreciate your prize? Fella’s I want to hear from you too. I wanna know if you feel your Trophy is being appreciated! I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !

Godspeed….Latoya

What’s Your Formula For Extraordinary Sex?

Monday, January 12th, 2009

toyagrn.JPGMy Extraordinary Sex Series wraps up with the last five topics. I love writing about sex because I feel we have to be reminded of how sacred and intimate that component of our relationship is. It’s the only part of us that is not shared with other people. It’s that deep emotional and spiritual time set aside for us to commune with our spouse; a physical communication where our bodies express with one another.

How does something so intimate get pushed to the back burner? And, how does an extraordinary experience become so ordinary?

Keeping it sexy and thriving can be a goal when so much is demanded of your time. With children, career demands, and outside commitments, by the end of the day you’ve been pulled in so many directions that there isn’t much gas left in you to go on. You go to sleep and do the same thing the next day leaving no energy for the person who loves you the most.

Extraordinary sex is not about being Superman or Superwoman in the bedroom. It’s about remembering when sex with your spouse was incredible and unbelievable. You were open minded, uninhibited and willing to do almost anything to please your Love. If you take away one thing from this series, its’ Remember and Renew (I know ..that’s 2 things). Remembering how it feels to hear her moan for you when you awaken her zones, or the way her back arched when she felt that intensity pour from her G-spot. Remembering when foreplay was as rewarding as intercourse and routine never entered the bedroom and more importantly; renewing your passion for one another.

Now that I’ve given you my formula for extraordinary sex, what yours?…..I’m listening….Holla at ya Gyrl!

Godspeed
~Latoya~


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Ready To Play?

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

t.bmpCan sex be extraordinary without foreplay? Foreplay is the most powerful prelude to intercourse and an art to appreciate. What other act is capable of bringing the heat without any physical contact what so ever? It’s not only about caressing nipples and teasing the clitoris or the head of the penis…that’s great, but not extraordinary. Extraordinary is having the ability to immerse your partner’s mind, set the scene, and excite the body before you even touch it. Yes I said it! BEFORE you even touch it.

When an Artist is ready to paint his masterpiece, he doesn’t just throw colors about. Total focus and commitment is placed on his vision before the brush meets the canvas. Some of us are not even privy to “regular” foreplay. For you, foreplay may have began as unbelievable excitement then over the years digressed to the mechanical “bump, bump” in the middle of night; you lifting your leg, and him entering. You wake up trying to remember if you had sex at all!

It is said the mind is the human body’s best erogenous zone. So why not arouse it with your foreplay and a good mind phuc? Our world today is all about communication. We have emails, texting, cell phones; instant messaging…the range is broad so use it.

Imagine reading an explicit message from your Woman explaining in detail how she is going to handle Big Daddy’s ….umm….Missile. Would you agree she has just captivated your mind and initiated extraordinary foreplay? Now, what if she showed up on your lunch break to make it happen? Would you be ready to play?….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl!

Godspeed
~Latoya~

Have You Experienced The “G”?

Monday, November 24th, 2008

toyapnk.JPGI want to spend a few topics focusing on the different types of Orgasms a woman can have. We all know about the most common ones like vaginal and clitoral. Although any type of Orgasm a woman is able to experience without faking is good, I want to get out of “regular” and delve into Intense and extraordinary. This is an area where Men rule because Men are guaranteed to ejaculate with EVERY sexual experience they have, bottom line. With Women it’s not always that easy so we get a broader spectrum of alternatives and the Men in our lives have the exclusive opportunity to gift us with an orgasm. This week I have chosen to talk about the “G”.

Much debate still continues over whether the G-spot exists. At this point in my life I’m convinced that Women who feel the G-spot is a myth has never experienced an orgasm from the G, and Men who agree the G-spot is a myth have no clue how to find it. Patience is a Virtue when locating the G, because if you have never been there it’s likely you won’t find it if you give up too quickly. The worst thing you can do is become so fixated on trying to find your woman’s G-spot that your sexual experience with her becomes sterile and rigid as opposed to a sensual journey.

A G-spot orgasm is more intense and heightened than a vaginal one. You will know when you hit your woman’s G-spot because she will release a sound unlike any you have ever heard and her back will arch so high even you will be amazed! Now let’s find it.

Women can also locate their own G-spot, but for the purpose of clarity, I’m writing this with the intention of a couple doing this together. First, slowly insert your finger (s) inside the Nani crooking it forward in a “come here” motion until you are up to the second knuckle. The texture of her vagina should feel slightly bumpy or ridged. That’s when you know you have entered the “G”. The other tell tale sign is that is that her breathing and movement is noticeably heavier.

She won’t orgasm immediately but she will lose ALL control of her body. The intensity of her orgasm depends on the pressure you give to get her there. It varies. This is something you will have to experiment with. If her G-spot is swollen, she is already fully aroused and the blood has rushed to that area. She is on the brink of orgasm and your “come here” motion should start at least at medium to heavy pressure. That’s it! All you have to remember is “come here”.

Ladies have you experienced the “G”? Fella’s can you stimulate the “G” and give your woman one of the most incredible orgasms ever?…I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl !