Posts Tagged ‘women’

Ready To Play?

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

t.bmpCan sex be extraordinary without foreplay? Foreplay is the most powerful prelude to intercourse and an art to appreciate. What other act is capable of bringing the heat without any physical contact what so ever? It’s not only about caressing nipples and teasing the clitoris or the head of the penis…that’s great, but not extraordinary. Extraordinary is having the ability to immerse your partner’s mind, set the scene, and excite the body before you even touch it. Yes I said it! BEFORE you even touch it.

When an Artist is ready to paint his masterpiece, he doesn’t just throw colors about. Total focus and commitment is placed on his vision before the brush meets the canvas. Some of us are not even privy to “regular” foreplay. For you, foreplay may have began as unbelievable excitement then over the years digressed to the mechanical “bump, bump” in the middle of night; you lifting your leg, and him entering. You wake up trying to remember if you had sex at all!

It is said the mind is the human body’s best erogenous zone. So why not arouse it with your foreplay and a good mind phuc? Our world today is all about communication. We have emails, texting, cell phones; instant messaging…the range is broad so use it.

Imagine reading an explicit message from your Woman explaining in detail how she is going to handle Big Daddy’s ….umm….Missile. Would you agree she has just captivated your mind and initiated extraordinary foreplay? Now, what if she showed up on your lunch break to make it happen? Would you be ready to play?….I’m listening…Holla at ya Gyrl!

Godspeed
~Latoya~

Can I Tell You What I Need?

Sunday, November 16th, 2008

toyapnk.JPGWomen are the most complex creatures God created. I imagine that when God realized Adam needed a help meet (Gen 2:18 KJV) even He may have rested his thumb and index finger on his chin, shook his head side to side, looked at all his holy materials and thought, “Where do I start?”

From Adams’ rib God created the only Helper and supporter you will ever need on this Earth. How else would we be able to fight you, love you, feed you, nurture you, smile for you (even when you don’t deserve one), and live with stretch marks for you?

When we truly love you, we are a damn good help meet. We know your needs whether you verbally express them or not, but….what we are not so good at is expressing what we need from you. In that aspect, we operate more on an emotional level than a practical one. Instead of just saying, “I need you to pay more attention to me,” we hope that you read our minds, our body language, heed our subtle sometimes enormous hints, or notice anything that will make you ask, “what’s wrong?”. Then….when you comply and ask the magic question, we reply with a pathetic, “nothing.” Which 99.9% of the time ALWAYS means it’s….. something!

Can I speak for myself and maybe a few other women and tell you what we need? What I need?

I need you to hug me first, hold me tight for no reason at all, tell me I’m beautiful, kiss me the way you used to, talk to me, trust me with your fears, surprise me with a gift, call me in the middle of the day and tell me how much you miss me, play with me, laugh with me, make love to me passionately, listen to me, be interested in me, & be my protector.

Me Me Me!…I know it may sound a little Me “ish”, but whether you choose to acknowledge it or not, this is what we need from you & likely won’t tell you.

Are we asking too much?…I’m listening, now Holla at ya Gyrl !

Godspeed
~Latoya~